Advocacy and the Gifted Teenager

Love this. As a gifted teen, I struggled with this even in a gifted program. Now, as a homeschooler, I still question the point of some of the things we learn. However, I’m also more apt to complete assignments at my own pace and in a more creative manner. Depending on the child, a wider ability to complete assignments and projects the way the child/teen wants can result in an even better window into improved education. So thumbs up for creativity!

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By Min-Ling Li

Min-Ling is IEA’s Apprenticeship Program Coordinator. She joined IEA after teaching high school mathematics in Los Angeles. Her dedication to supporting high-potential students is rooted in her own experiences as a student who struggled to find outlets that nurtured her intellectual and social dispositions.

Amelia is a 10th grader who attends a small private school in Northern California. She enjoys singing and dancing, as well as reading about the universe and diving into the intricacies of supernovae. Amelia is self-motivated but often finds that her school and the courses offered do not satisfy her curiosity in the arts, math, and sciences. The content to learn within her school is often shallow, and completing assignments of knowledge-gathering is baffling to her, as she can find the answer with taps on a keyboard and Wikipedia. She despises memorization. Amelia is respectful. With that said, she follows her enthusiastic and…

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The Daisy Charter: The Magna Carta of Gifted Children

This is my Charter. My Daisy Charter. Why daisies?  Because sometimes gifted children get overlooked, kicked under the bus so to speak. They are labeled (there’s that word again) as “just hyperactive”, “socially incompetent”, “emotional”, “overly sensitive”, and more. Seriously, I could go on and on and on. Daisies are the small flowers of the world. The ones that tend to just pop up randomly and in small little bunches. They’re flowers, but not many care about them because they wilt easily, they aren’t pretty enough, they attract some bees. Well, daisies just so happen to be a lovely flower; one of my favorites. Because they aren’t  random, you can find them anywhere and in large groups too. They only wilt without water, they have tough little stems and hardy leaves. They’re cute and can brighten up a big bouquet with just a couple. And all flowers attract bees. So I guess what I’m saying is yeah, gifted kids come with some stingers; quirky habits, little irritants, stuff that sets them off. And yeah, gifted children aren’t overly abundant, but there are enough and the number is growing. Maybe they aren’t the Picasso’s, the Mozart’s, the Jimmy Choo of the world. But they are pretty dang smart and loving and beautifully different. They can get pretty hard to deal with sometimes and they can seem too sensitive and incapable. But give them support and love and they blossom. Try to understand them, and you will be appreciated. Don’t fool with them, they will grow. This is my Daisy Charter.

I want love and support and understanding. In return, I will give you intelligence and fun facts until twelve o’ clock on that long car ride home from grandma’s.

I want to be considered normal because different is normal and indifference shouldn’t be normal. In return, I will give you quirky habits you will love and jokes so overthought they’ll make memories aplenty.

I want the right to be looked up to, not looked down on. In return, I will give you a bright smile and happy laugh.

I want the right to be a perfectionist even when you consider it ridiculous because nobody is perfect. In return, I’ll give you a hard worker, loyal and ready to do what she does best anytime.

I want the right to inspire others to get past what others consider a disability and do better than before. In return, I will never give up, even when I’m past the point of no return.

I want the right to be considered just another child. In return, I will give you a big hug every time I am happy and you have helped me, even if I didn’t understand the first time.

I want the right to have education specialized just for me. In return, I will give you my all, I will pore over books and learn all the things you teach me and more.

I want the right to not be labelled, but to be accepted. In return, I will not be who or what I am labelled but I will be me.

I want the right to be emotional, to be sensitive, to be hyper. In return, I will give you energy and fun and confusion and love and a learning experience, for both of us.

I want the right to be a daisy in a field of roses, the so called different in a pot of so called normal. In return, I will show you how different can be good and normal is just an ideal.

-From all the Daisies

P.S. This document is subject to changes because I am gifted and can sometimes be unpredictable.

Yeah, gifted children are unpredictable. Something can be going so right and then BOOM, meltdown. That’s ok. Your child can be having the best day ever and then BOOM, tears of frustration because her sock is on wrong. That’s ok. That essay looks so fantastic and it’s sure to win first prize then BOOM it’s horrible, everything written seems stupid because you forgot citations. That’s ok. BOOM. BOOM. It’s constant. It will get better. But try to understand, not WHAT I, you, he, she, is feeling someway. Try WHY. We don’t know WHAT all the time. But we know WHY. Getting to know these quirks and irritants and habits can help to minimize them, to deal with them. And to understand them. And understanding and support is all we need and want. We don’t want labels when we know we are something. Gifted isn’t what we are. We are gifted. And that’s ok.

The Daisy Charter: A Gifted Teens Perspective

Hi everybody! I hope you enjoy your visit. 🙂 This blog is kind of different. It’s not about fashion, food, a lifestyle. Photography, fitness, or diy’s. Yeah, those are all cool, and I’m sure there’ll be some of everything here in time. But this is about being gifted. No, I’m not being extraordinarily self-confident or egotistical. There is actually something called “gifted” children. Yes, gifted children are generally considered “more” intelligent. No, not all are; most are average. Yes, there are some “gifted” in a certain area, as we all are, and some perform extremely well. No, they are not perfect or better than other children.

In fact, you really shouldn’t think gifted children are any better than others. In fact, they are worse in some ways. I should know. I’ve gone to schools with specifically designed courses and ways of teaching just for gifted children. Generally called Centers for Gifted Studies, there aren’t many after middle school. Maybe we’re supposed to “get over it” by then. I don’t know. And many parents and families don’t know what exactly to do or to look for when they realize they have a gifted child.

Let’s be honest here. Having experienced it personally, most people have no idea what they’re getting into when their children are suddenly considered qualified to be gifted. A lot of times, that’s because they don’t know what it’s like for the child or the teachers or what’s in store for them. Let me give you an example. Has anybody heard that a woman’s mind is like having an Internet browser with 2700 tabs open? Or more? And they’re all running at the same time? Yeah, ok. A gifted childs mind has about four women, a box, some putty, a pillow, and a petting zoo in it. And they’re trying to interact with them all at once. More on that later.

So basically, it’s a bunch of tangled electrical wires sending signals off randomly, some by accident and they’re going who knows where because the kid sure as heck doesn’t know. So be prepared for mood swings, boundless energy, and random bursts of information ranging from why that balloon is pink with blue polka-dots to the squirrel cloud. Be ready for lots of confusion, endless fun and meltdowns. Brace yourselves for unexplainable habits and random projects and phases that never end. I promise, it’s a great ride. And I’d love to share it with you, provide some insight as to how the gifted mind works, and just be here. Because gifted kids are also very empathetic of course.